A lot of times when people are arguing they keep trying to prove their point, they make up more excuses to grip on to the point that they want to prove that they can win something... we all have argued in our life (If you haven't there is something wrong with you)- either to your parents, siblings and friends.

When you fight with your parents, a lot of times they are trying to protect you not trying to hurt you.

When you fight with your siblings... Well if you have older siblings than a lot of times you are trying to prove that you can stand up to someone bigger than you. Then if you have younger siblings than you just want to show them that you are in charge that you are their boss... but its not true, you have to show them that you are in charge but also at the same time show them compassion. 

When you fight with a friend, you argue then walk away from each other and don't talk to one another for a week, and some times you come back together and say sorry and make up and your friends again, but there are some people that hold on to their anger and never apologize to one another you hold a grudge for so long that you believe that you hate them, one holds a grudge than the other a strong one, than that grudge grows stronger and stronger, both want to make up and say their sorry but both don't want to give in and admit that they are wrong. they both are waiting for the other one to apologize, and none say sorry until the other gives in but each one is waiting on the other, its like a scale if there are two weights that are the same weight the other one is waiting to have something more heavy so the other one will go up and say sorry but no one ever puts something more heavy on the scale. 

Some times we have to admit that we are wrong, even if it is hard because than a relation ship is broken because they each are waiting for the other to give in and say that they were wrong.