Youth group

I went to youth group last night, they talked about why we need God and how our life would be like without him and how he will always be with us. 

We need God for everything, for Joy if we didn't have God in our life we would have no joy no happiness, you might say to your self 'I have joy' or 'I have happiness' but if you don't have God in your life you might have happiness and joy but not in the way that God would want you to.

When people don't have God in their life they are depressed and they don't know why, if they have a friend that is a believer in Christ they're probably wondering 'Why do they have joy and I don't?' the best thing to do to those people is to love on them and them eventually they might ask you why you are so happy and that is when you tell them and teach them about God.  

You can see the difference between people who have Christ in their life and who doesn't. The people that don't look sad, they are trying to prove them self's to other people, we don't want to judge these people we want to be a light in their darkness we want to pray for them. 

Every one has sinned before every one have made mistakes everyone has had tough things going on in their life at some point but through that whole time God stuck with you he will never leave you no matter how many times you sin no matter what God will always have you in the palm of his hand he will never drop you on the floor and abandon you, someone will always love you.

   

A lot of times when people are arguing they keep trying to prove their point, they make up more excuses to grip on to the point that they want to prove that they can win something... we all have argued in our life (If you haven't there is something wrong with you)- either to your parents, siblings and friends.

When you fight with your parents, a lot of times they are trying to protect you not trying to hurt you.

When you fight with your siblings... Well if you have older siblings than a lot of times you are trying to prove that you can stand up to someone bigger than you. Then if you have younger siblings than you just want to show them that you are in charge that you are their boss... but its not true, you have to show them that you are in charge but also at the same time show them compassion. 

When you fight with a friend, you argue then walk away from each other and don't talk to one another for a week, and some times you come back together and say sorry and make up and your friends again, but there are some people that hold on to their anger and never apologize to one another you hold a grudge for so long that you believe that you hate them, one holds a grudge than the other a strong one, than that grudge grows stronger and stronger, both want to make up and say their sorry but both don't want to give in and admit that they are wrong. they both are waiting for the other one to apologize, and none say sorry until the other gives in but each one is waiting on the other, its like a scale if there are two weights that are the same weight the other one is waiting to have something more heavy so the other one will go up and say sorry but no one ever puts something more heavy on the scale. 

Some times we have to admit that we are wrong, even if it is hard because than a relation ship is broken because they each are waiting for the other to give in and say that they were wrong.

Okay so I need ideas for a blog post! that is mostly why I have not been posting because I have nothing to post about, also my life is crazy busy, but the times that I'm not busy I have nothing to post about.

So I would love it if you guys can give me CLEAN ideas of what I should post about! thanks to all who comment and for those who just read! :) 

Prayer Request

Okay so my friend Jo has scoliosis which is 25 degree angle to the right at the top and a 45 degree angle to the left at the bottom.
She will be getting surgery on Monday, which the doctors will put in two mettle polls into her back that will stay there forever and she will not be fully healed for a year, so she could use your prayers through out that whole time.
Love you girl and I will come visit you! :)    

Game

I want to give you a game so what I want you to do is comment below and do a kind of 'What am I game' I will give you an example: I have a gold holder and I am lit with match what am I? 

Okay so that one was easy but you can answer that question any ways, if no one comments than I will give a lot of 'What am I' questions! Have fun.

Judging one another

Some times... change that... Most of the time there are people that have something wrong with them or is annoying or rude you judge them and I'm going to give you options for each.
For something is wrong with them (Disability wise): you think 'Oh they are ugly and are totally clueless to what other people are doing.' or you could think 'They are made in God's eyes and they are meant to be what he made them to be they have a purpose in life' in this one at first you might say the first one but if you get to know that person you can see that they have talents like other people, they are just like you even if they look different, A lot of people judge people by their looks, If they don't look the same then they are an out cast. I try to (and I still judge) look past their looks and try to look to see like God would see others and that is that all men are made in his image.
For they are so annoying: you could think 'What is wrong with this person they are just trying to get attention' now the 'They are just trying to get attention' part is almost all the time true unless they are just trying to annoy you but if they are a random stranger they might be trying to get attention for different reasons.
1. They are showing off.
2. They are bored and they are just trying to bring some interesting things in their life.
Or 3. They are trying to get attention because they have abusive parents that don't care about them or has no friends at school.
All of them are most likely to be but the third one has a lot in it because the person just wants to be loved and wants to feel loved by some one and they think that being annoying will get them attention also the first one is the same, that they want attention.
For rude: You could think that 'Oh they hate me' and then you could feel really discouraged but the other thing that you could think is 'They are probably just having a hard day or there is something in their life that is discouraging them or they had a death in the family' you could think that they just are sad or something is just depressing them and not that they hate you because it is probably not you what is making them get mad or be rude.
Now since a lot of people judge one another I challenge you to look through everything in a new way try to feel what they feel and understand that they might just have something hard going on with their life.
  

Never grow up

Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up I could still be little Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up It could still be simple Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple Won't let nobody hurt you Won't let no one break your heart And even though you want to, please try to never grow up Oh, don't you ever grow up Oh, never grow up, just never grow up~ Never Grow Up by Taylor Swift.
Every one has had a time in their life when they just want to grow up... but when it really happens, it doesn't feel like you thought it would when you where younger... you thought that it would feel like this whole changing experience in your life.

This was me, my mom and my two sisters when we where younger

When you have a younger sibling like I do who is going through the stage of always wanting to be older... when her older sisters go to the mall with their friends she wants to go... I just wish that she could just stay little and never grow up. 
I was looking back on pictures when she was a small chubby baby and then she slowly is growing into a smart young girl... So smart that she could be in third grade instead of second. My brother is in kindergarten but he is in a first grade math book... when it arrived at the door he was so excited... I will never forget the look on his face his little belly laugh when he is watching a movie that is really not that funny.
A lot of times people don't see what is right in front of them. This week I challenge you to look into the moment and really be thankful to what is right in front of you.